People are often recommended, or consider counselling as an option, but are unsure what to expect from the process and whether it can help you.
Here’s how I assist you: I extend a warm invitation for a relaxed and informal conversation, whether it’s face-to-face or through a video call. During our discussion, I encourage you to articulate in detail the issues that are troubling you. I approach this process with attentive listening, refraining from passing judgment or providing oversimplified answers. Instead, my aim is to guide you in making better sense of your experiences, thoughts, and emotions. I aim to facilitate an exploration of your feelings, assisting you in uncovering meanings, identifying patterns, and contemplating various options.
Embarking on counselling, especially if it’s a novel experience for you, might initially be challenging to believe that the act of “just talking” can be profoundly beneficial. Nevertheless, if you’re contending with depression and grappling with a negative self-perception, a transformative experience can unfold through in-depth conversations where you cultivate a comprehensive understanding and respect for yourself—whether delving into your life’s history or focusing on your present self, or both. In the midst of overwhelming emotions, a poised and connected conversation partner can provide much-needed relief. If your emotions seem perplexing, engaging in a discussion can illuminate and bring about clarity. Addressing your stress through conversation becomes an initial step toward managing it. Confronting deep loss requires someone willing to dedicate time to talk and walk alongside you through your grief. Engaging in the meaningful conversations you genuinely need transcends the notion of mere “talking.”
Allowing yourself the space to be heard, coupled with genuine and attentive listening, can cultivate a sense of coherence, wholeness, vitality, value, and connection. In essence, this encapsulates the efficacy of counselling and how, as a practitioner in this field, I am poised to provide support tailored to your needs.